I saw a friend the day before I gave birth, at 41weeks and 5 days not knowing what we were expecting. My friend commented on how much cake I was eating when I went in for 2nds to finish off her daughters. I was having low pains that day and she said I was ‘storing energy’ ready for labour to which I laughed. I noticed the pains more when I was walking around, so that evening me and my partner Andy went for a long walk around the park. I noticed the lower pains started to get stronger. I did gentle exercises on the birthing ball before bed which really helped my pelvic floor. Waking up a few hrs later at 2:30am to feel more lower pain, I wondered if this was the real thing as we had a false alarm the week before . I woke Andy and we decided for me to have a warm bath and take some paracetamol to see if this was the real deal this time. 4 hrs later the almost period like pains weren’t going away. We called the hospital and kept them informed of progress. We called our parents too and about an hr later Andy was telling me we were going in to hospital. I remember keeping track on an app for how far apart the contractions were and telling him we were going to be sent home as they weren’t far apart enough. When we got to hospital I was examined and was told I was 5cms dilated, to which point I realised I had not used the app properly ! We were taken straight to the delivery ward. I was on a birthing ball with gas and air by 8am and getting used to the pains of the contractions. My dad unexpectedly arrived much to my surprise, which made me feel even more at home at the hospital and was a great support for Andy . 4 hrs in and My back waters broke as I got onto the bed to be examined. I was 6/7cm
. My midwife Louise had to break my top waters to allow baby’s head to move down. I was back on the ball after feeling much more comfortable but the contractions instantly felt more intense and pressure was building. I no longer made conversation or small talk between contractions as I focused on my body. Louise asked if I needed anymore pain relief to which I eventually agreed to have an epidural. After the stint was put in my hand and I was back on the bed, the anaesthetise was in the room ready. I remember feeling my body pushing with a contraction unexpectedly. The anaesthetise told me not to push but I couldn’t help it and with another contraction and me saying I was pushing louise checked me again and said we were ready to have the baby. Hearing those words, I told her I couldn’t push. Like I suddenly froze and couldn’t do it. Louise reassured Me and Andy was telling me I had done so well and that I could do this. There was no time for an epidural and my dad had already left the room to give me and Andy this time to ourselves. Louise helped me into a comfortable position for pushing and with in about 20/30mins our gorgeous little boy arrived. A moment I will remember for the rest of my life was andy crying to me – it’s a boy, it’s a boy. Feeling my boy laying on my belling for the first time was priceless . All in all I laboured for 12 hrs and Harry was born weighing 8lb 2 at 14:10.